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Acceptance VS Accepting my Self

Good morning angels of love ๐Ÿค—

Two of my biggest insecurities growing up was my image and weird way of being. ๐Ÿคช

I grew up like most people seeking acceptance. ๐Ÿ˜ž

If you have this problem, I beg you to try to understand this is wrong. ๐Ÿ™

Itโ€™s been soo many years of pain, anxiety, and makeup! ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’„

The last several years of my life has really been me learning how to free myself from old ways of thinking. It wasnโ€™t easy and it took years but itโ€™s all in your perspective! Perspectives come from experiences or someone teaching it to you. When you were younger you didnโ€™t even understand that concept. Meaning, someone or people have been wiring you up to think the way they do.

If you have this problem work at it a little every day because “Oooh the freedom of just being is underrated!! ๐Ÿคฉ๐ŸคŸ”

Just wipe clean anything anyone ever told you, said about you and all the opinionated thoughts you believed because it doesnโ€™t matter. ๐Ÿคท๐Ÿผโ€โ™€๏ธ

Like at all.

No acceptance needed but you will feel it ๐Ÿ˜œ

(You dress how you feel that day, wear makeup if you want the look or not!)

You will essentially be interacting in the metaphysical plains of life. The frequency that keeps us alive. The unseeable bonds that are felt and remembered through lifetimes.

There’s a hollowness to being called beautiful without any actions to support how thatโ€™s supposed to feel to us (individually). ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰

To add to that, when youโ€™re not called beautiful you seek it ๐Ÿง›โ€โ™€๏ธ๐Ÿง›โ€โ™‚๏ธ because it’s not filling.

Being made felt beautiful is another realm of deep, dense gratitude and appreciation that fills the heart and thereโ€™s even some of that stuff left over to fill the SOUL! ๐Ÿค—โœจ

How does one become made to feel beautiful? Itโ€™s our job ๐Ÿ™‚ and beautiful actions keep your light lit.

Selfless actions

Deep conversations with no regards to time

Service

Private donations

Paying it forward

Pro-activity in every aspect of your life

Self-exploration

Offering help

Doing the right thing

with a side of SELF REFLECTING!

The Alternative

Seeking acceptance is someone jumping around figuring out how to get the next Compliment

Smile

Laugh

Girl/Guy

Like

Better car/house

Basically, you live on a different frequency. Itโ€™s not nurturing there. Itโ€™s a little on the anxiety side and that causes stress and stress deteriorates our organism. ๐Ÿ˜–

Just know that above all I think higher and higher and well-being above all right? I mean if we donโ€™t have that we donโ€™t have life.

Practice makes Purpose ๐Ÿ˜‹

I love you all!

๐Ÿ‘โค๏ธ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿง โœจ

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P.S

I hope all of you already had this insight but if you haven’t I’m okay with you just giving it a decent amount of time to set in. You all deserve a quality life! โœŒ๏ธ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿง 

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I've always known that I was a little different but people seem to like it. Hi! and welcome to my world! (insert globe emoji here)

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